In other words, the art lies in toeing the line between being honest and portraying that honest self through the filter of yet another online social platform.
"If your match skipped this section, again, you should question whether or not he's actually looking for a relationship," says Davis.
Fact is, once we're out of college and increasingly out of the traditional workplace in favor of isolated home offices, there aren't many other ways to meet men. Deduct two inches from his height and ,000/year from his stated income. Women, by the way, usually only shave off five years. If he's wearing a cowboy hat and standing next to a truck, he's bald and he drinks. "Kinky" means not only is he kinky, but he overshares. "Wants to spoil you" means he's looking for someone his daughter's age, D-cup or better.
I don't know about you, but I'm just not out clubbing as much as I once was. Men tend to be deluded about the youthfulness of their appearance. If he's wearing a cowboy hat and standing next to a Harley, he's bald, drinks, and will cheat on you. "Generous" means he's looking for someone younger than his daughter, DD-cup or better. "Athletic" means he spends his Sundays in front of the television.
She means: I’m contemplating maybe meeting you but in the meantime let’s chat a little bit more so I can feel more comfortable that you’re not a psychopath serial killer.
She means: I’m looking for a guy who’s looking for more than just a hole (or three).