Below are the 5 top reasons black women are apprehensive about going there with a white guy.1.
Body image Black women are known to be naturally curvaceous. Thinner is usually all around better within the white community.
So there is historical memory and stigma in the Black community due to these facts.
Not just a healthy size 8 or 10 but a nice slender 4 or even 2 is nice, 6 works but not nearly as well as a 4. My girlfriends and I have often joked about knowing when you've lost or gained weight.
Stories about the number of Black women who are single have made headlines for years, and many of us are tired of hearing them.
But the reality often hits home during the holidays, when discussing your love life becomes an appetizer at meals with the family.
What can be even more disheartening than seeing your beautiful, professional, well-educated sisterfriend still unattached is seeing a successful Black man settle down with someone of another ethnic group.
The immediate thought for many is, With all the gorgeous, accomplished Black women available, why didn't he choose one of us?